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What is Comprehensive Cognitive – Behavioral Therapy?
How is CCBT used to Overcome
Social Anxiety Disorder?
Thomas A.
Richards, Ph.D., Psychologist
Director, Social Anxiety Institute
It wasn’t long ago that very
few people had heard the term "cognitive - behavioral
therapy".
With the outpouring of research
in the 1980s, and the studies on anxiety disorders that were
published in the 1990s, the term "cognitive – behavioral
therapy", or CBT, gained acceptance and became well known.
But even though the term itself became well known, just what
"cognitive- behavioral therapy" involved was less well
understood.
Meanwhile, in study after study,
cognitive – behavioral therapy began to prove to be the therapy
of choice for many mental health care problems, including
depression and the anxiety disorders.
In fact, large-scale, long-range
(i.e., longitudinal) studies over the past decade have
consistently shown cognitive – behavioral therapy to be the
only therapy that can be dependably relied upon to help people
overcome clinical anxiety disorders.
While this was good news, some
rather large questions continued to cloud the horizon. For
example, each study defined CBT in a different way, and most
studies were rather vague in their explanation of just what CBT
was considered to be. The other big problem was that people began
to think of cognitive-behavioral therapy as a "unified"
therapy, or as a therapy that was "set" or always the
same for every mental health care problem
In fact, CBT is a combination or
a "pulling together" of any and all methods,
strategies, and techniques that work to help people successfully
overcome their particular emotional problems. The cognitive part
of the therapy refers to thinking or learning and is the part of
therapy that can be "taught" to the person. The person
then needs to take what has been taught, practice it at home, and
through means of repetition, get that new "learning"
down into the brain over and over again.
This is essentially the same
process as school or college learning. You are taught some new
information or skills, and then you learn them. When you learn
them well enough (through repetition), this affects your memory
processes (and physiologically your brain’s neural pathways)
and allows you to begin thinking, acting, and feeling
differently. This takes persistence, practice, and patience, but
when a person sticks with this therapy, and does not give up,
noticeable progress begins to occur.
The behavioral component of CBT
involves participation in an active, structured therapy group,
consisting of people with clinical social anxiety. In the
behavioral group, people voluntarily engage in practical
activities that are mildly anxiety-causing, and proceed in a
flexible, steady, scheduled manner. By moving forward in this
manner, step by step, and through the use of repetition, the
anxiety felt in social situations is gradually reduced. The
behavioral therapy group should consist of people with social
anxiety only. People with other emotional problems should not be
mixed into this group. Even an "anxiety" group will not
work. Because the problems are very different from each anxiety
disorder to the other, the behavioral group and its activities
would prove to be ineffective for people with panic, generalized
anxiety, or obsessive-compulsive disorder, even though these are
clinical anxiety disorders as well.
At the same time, the social anxiety behavioral group builds
confidence and produces a more rational perception in the persons’
mind concerning their own abilities and competencies. The
behavioral group must be structured in a step-by-step
hierarchical fashion, and should include consistent cognitive
reminders before and after people actively work on their
specific, individualized anxiety hierarchies.
Thus, the cognitive-behavioral therapy we do for social anxiety
does not contain the same information or proceed in the same
manner as cognitive-behavioral therapy for other mental health
care problems.
For example, CBT for depression is very different in nature than
CBT for social anxiety. Because the problem is different, CBT for
social anxiety contains different methods and strategies than CBT
for depression, panic disorder or generalized anxiety disorder.
Thus, cognitive-behavioral therapy, while always being active,
structured, and solution-focused, must employ different ways of
overcoming the particular emotional problem in question.
CBT is not a "set of
methods" that work for all disorders. There are not simply
two, three, or four strategies that work to help everyone with
all kinds of mental health care problems.
Thus, the specifics or details of CBT are not universally
applicable. This has been a thorny issue for professionals who do
not really understand what cognitive-behavioral therapy involves.
With the advent of managed care, the insurance companies now want
therapists who say they can do "cognitive-behavioral"
or "solution-focused" therapy. So, in order to be
included in these groups and panels, professionals now will
usually say they do "cognitive-behavioral therapy". But
what exactly does this mean?
At this point in time, almost every licensed therapist knows the
accepted terminology. The question becomes do they understand CBT
and can they do it? This is only the first relevant
question and the first hurdle to cross.
The second issue the
professional must understand and must be able to accomplish
concerns their ability to use specific CBT methods and strategies
to help people with a particular disorder, such as social
anxiety. When specific cognitive-behavioral therapy for social
anxiety is not understood or put into place, then people with
social anxiety disorder will not receive the help and assistance
they need to overcome this debilitating anxiety disorder.
Because each mental health care problem is different, and because
people with social anxiety disorder respond to different CBT
methods, strategies, and approaches, the professional should be
cognizant of how to lead, guide, and help people with social
anxiety overcome this specific anxiety disorder.
I receive dozens of e-mails and
other correspondence each day, with one of the recurring themes
being, "I went through cognitive-behavioral therapy and I
didn't get any better. What’s wrong?"
The answer to this question is
another question: "Did you receive appropriate, comprehensive
cognitive therapy and appropriate, comprehensive
behavioral therapy, and were the cognitive and the behavioral
components of the therapy "reinforced together" in your
mind by your therapist?
This, of course, leads to the
question: "What exactly is comprehensive cognitive –
behavioral therapy, and how does it differ from traditional
cognitive behavioral therapy?"
The traditional answer to
"what is cognitive-behavioral therapy" has been
"restructuring" the mind (i.e., thought processes) by
means of disputing irrational thoughts and beliefs and
substituting rational thoughts and beliefs in their place. There
is usually mention of breathing exercises and relaxation
techniques as well.
"Cognitive
restructuring" or "learning to think rationally"
are essential components of cognitive therapy for social anxiety
disorder. However, while learning to notice and eradicate
automatic negative thinking (and slowly moving the thinking up to
automatic rational thinking) is essential for overcoming social
anxiety, there are fifteen to twenty specific steps that need to
be learned to be able to do this. You cannot tell a person with
social anxiety to simply stop thinking negative thoughts.
Obviously, the person does not want to think negatively, and if
they could choose to stop thinking negatively, they would do so
in a heartbeat.
We must employ very specific
ways to allow the person to begin to (a) catch their own
automatic negative thinking, (b) find distractions to use while
therapy is in progress, and (c) begin to turn the tables on
automatic negative thinking gradually. The mind will not accept
"irrational positive" statements or beliefs. Repeating
"I will wake up in the morning and be happy, content, and
less anxious" will do absolutely nothing, because this
statement is irrational, given the current state of the mind.
Therefore, emphasizing positive thinking and giving out positive
thinking statements to people with social anxiety disorder is
going to be ineffective, and will only prove to the person that
the therapist does not understand and does not know how to
successfully treat social anxiety.
The mind cannot work overnight
and cannot be pressured into learning things faster. So, it is
important, in the cognitive process, to turn the tables on
automatic negative thinking slowly. To do this, people with
social anxiety learn to catch their automatic negative thoughts
and then make them rationally neutral. As they find this process
easier, they begin to catch more of their automatic negative
thinking. This, in turn, leads to consciously turning this
negative thinking into rational neutral thinking. Then, this
neutral thinking is gradually moved up, always in a step-by-step
manner, to a more realistic level, so that with time and
repetition, the person’s thinking moves slowly upward and
becomes more realistic. At first, this is a conscious process,
but the more it is practiced and repeated, the more it becomes an
automatic process.
Now, to get even more specific,
how do we accomplish these cognitive goals? We use a series of
printed handouts that accompany the office visits. The role of
the therapist is to know what to do and at what pace therapy can
proceed with each individual. People with social anxiety need
printed handouts that explain, with specificity, (a) how to stop
automatic negative thinking, (b) how and why to use distractions,
(c) how to turn automatic negative thinking neutral, (d) the
importance of repetition and consistency in this process, and (e)
how to gradually keep turning the tables on the automatic
negative thinking until it becomes realistic and rational. We
have approximately twenty (20) handouts (i.e., printed methods,
strategies, concepts, and techniques) that we use to guide the
person along the road to rational and realistic thinking in this
step-by-step manner.
Even though automatic negative
thinking and feeling are an essential part of cognitive therapy,
there are many more facets to this therapy. If cognitive therapy
is seen only as a thinking change process, then this therapy will
not be strong enough, in most cases, to overcome social anxiety.
At this point, there are many
other cognitive issues that must be presented and solved. For
example, there are many cognitive methods of lessening anxiety,
especially as it applies to interpersonal relations and groups.
These methods must be presented, practiced, and used to give the
person with social anxiety the feeling, even though it is small
at first, that they have some control over their anxiety,
particularly in social situations. The use of one method, such as
relaxation, is never enough. Not everyone with social anxiety can
learn to relax enough so that it becomes practical and useable in
real-life situations at first. So, it is the therapist’s
responsibility to have many ways (i.e., methods, techniques,
strategies) to allow the person to begin to control their own
emotions.
We have found that it is
important to have the cognitive therapy written out in handout
form for the patient. In this manner, they understand it better,
recognize the rationale behind it, and then can practice this
method or strategy (over and over again) when they are at home
during the week.
At least a dozen more cognitive
problems must be solved besides the two already mentioned. Lack
of space prohibits a detailed analysis, but some of the every day
problems that must be worked on and solved if we say we are
helping people overcome social anxiety, are the person’s (a)
misperception of themselves in terms of appearance, ability, and
self-worth, (b) feelings of guilt and embarrassment arising from
past situations, (c) anger arising from past situations, (d)
self-assertion strategies to show the person they do not need to
be a doormat, (e) perfectionism and how to become more realistic,
and (f) procrastination habits that exist because of social
anxiety worries and doubts.
In one sense, you could lump all
of these things together as "irrational beliefs", but
these problems do not fit neatly into this category, like
automatic negative thinking. Each of these additional problems
must have solutions, too, that are practical and viable in the
real world. Thus, from the cognitive therapy standpoint, the
therapist should have the methods and strategies in handout form
so that each of the above mentioned problems may be addressed and
solved. Each handout is a solution to a particular social anxiety
problem. The more areas of social anxiety that are addressed, and
the more solutions that are found, the quicker, easier, and
stronger the healing becomes.
Again, I do not mean to imply
that the social anxieties I have mentioned so far are a complete
listing. There are many other issues relating to social anxiety
that should be resolved. Again, we feel strongly that a written
handout with the problem, the rationale, and the solution on it
are essential to adequate progress in this area.
Then, it is up to patients and
their motivation to carry through with the cognitive therapy. The
therapy must be "practiced" at home (when they are
alone and not feeling self-conscious) for approximately thirty
minutes a day. Persistency is the next key. These solutions must
be practiced every day for three months or longer. It is
essential that the brain receive these new, rational,
forward-moving messages so that thinking can be changed (i.e.,
the neural pathways in the mind "absorb" the cognitive
therapy and it begins to become a part of the person). This
constant repetition of the material that solves the social
anxiety puzzle is what allows permanent change to occur in
people.
Granted, this is just an
introduction to the intricacies of cognitive therapy for social
anxiety disorder. But it takes the mastery of these concepts (and
many more) before a program for social anxiety can be successful.
Since the term
"cognitive-behavioral therapy" is being thrown about
indiscriminately, we feel that the need to define CBT differently
as it is employed for social anxiety. Thus, we are beginning to
use the terminology "Comprehensive Cognitive – Behavioral
Therapy" to refer to the therapy that is most efficacious
for social anxiety disorder. This also differentiates social
anxiety CBT from the mistaken idea that relaxation strategies,
keeping a journal, and changing some irrational beliefs is all
that it takes to overcome this disorder.
So far, we have discussed the
cognitive component of the therapy. Behavioral therapy is also
essential for people with social anxiety disorder. Behavioral
therapy, by definition, is active and structured. But here’s
where the typical understanding of "behavioral" breaks
down, when it is applied to people with social anxiety disorder.
The behavioral component of the
therapy has typically been explained as "exposure"
(i.e., exposing people with social anxiety to situations which
they fear, so that they will habituate, or get used to, the
feared situation.) As you may notice, this definition has two
problems. While being fairly accurate, it (a) is too vague and
contains no specifics, and (b) does not explain or address
adequately why "exposure" for social anxiety must be
done differently than "exposure" for people with other
mental health care disorders.
Most therapists think of
"behavioral therapy" as "exposure" to
real-life anxiety-producing situations. Anyone familiar with
social anxiety disorder knows that exposures do not work, they
only cause damage, and they keep the person locked in the vicious
cycle of anxiety, irritation, frustration, anger, and depression.
Why am I saying this? At the worst stages of my own social
anxiety, I was constantly "exposed" to
anxiety-producing situations. There were many situations I could
not avoid. I had no choice. I had to "expose" myself to
these anxiety-producing situations even though I did not want to
do so.
For example, at one point in my
life I was a teacher. I did fine with students, but when it came
to parent-teacher conferences, I would dread the experience (the
"exposure") weeks and weeks ahead of time. The
anticipatory anxiety and fear was so strong that it gripped at my
stomach and made me feel like it was bloody and raw. Over the
course of nine years, I was required to go through thirty-three
weeks of parent-teacher conferences. I was exposed to one of my
greatest fears, and the repetition and further exposure to this
fear did not cause me to lose my anxiety and feel more
comfortable. Instead, I faced my fears and my fears became even
stronger. This is only one example of why traditional
"exposure" techniques are counterproductive for people
with social anxiety disorder.
Equally annoying and
discouraging to people with social anxiety is the oft-mentioned
"face your fears" and you will become anxiety-free.
Several books on the market have this terminology in their title
and it is not only a wrong course of action to take with social
anxiety, it is an action that leads to doubt, depression,
questioning, and even more anxiety. Some of the worst advice
given to people with social anxiety is to "buck up and face
your fears". This will not work. It will backfire and it
damages lives.
The term "systematic
desensitization" is also used as a behavioral technique for
social anxiety. This is actually a strategy that will work, given
that the therapist knows how to adequately and to appropriately
implement it. The "systematic" part of systematic
desensitization is highly important. In behavioral therapy for
social anxiety, the progress must be systematic, step-by-step,
hierarchical, and repetitious. If it moves too fast, or if it is
too much, this therapy will backfire. It is very important
that any process of desensitization be gradual and systematic.
However, we tend to shy away
from this terminology as well, because (a) not everyone means the
same thing when they use it, and (b) it can easily be
misunderstood and misused. Thus, we are more prone to consider
behavioral therapy for social anxiety as a gradual, step-by-step
process, one that is never helped by force, pressure, or
flooding. We have begun to call these behavioral activities
"experiments" to differentiate them from other
behavioral terminology that may be confusing when applied to the
treatment of social anxiety disorder.
When we began our behavioral
therapy group in 1995, we held it on a week day evening for two
hours. As more people with social anxiety joined the program, we
had two or three evenings a week dedicated to social anxiety
behavioral group therapy.
While this schedule worked,
there were several problems with it, principally tiredness and
time. Most people came directly from a full day of work, and were
understandably tired. There was also the growing realization that
the time allotted (i.e., two hours) was not optimal to accomplish
all that was needed.
At the beginning of 1999, we
began using Saturday as the cognitive therapy day for new people
(mornings) and the behavioral therapy group for new and returning
people (afternoons). By taking this approach, we found we could
lengthen the behavioral therapy time by an hour and have a group
of people who were more rested and relaxed, relative to a
weeknight group. Thus, while still providing individual
appointments for cognitive therapy, and maintaining an evening
behavioral therapy group, we launched an all-day Saturday CBT
group.
In general, we believe the
Saturday approach works better, is easier for patients, and most
likely shortens therapy. In our initial assessment, the
behavioral therapy group on Saturday afternoon has proven to be a
more effective approach to group therapy relative to a weeknight
group.
The behavioral therapy group
must be individualized to allow for each person to work on their
own specific anxiety hierarchy. While many of the behavioral
activities will be the same for people with social anxiety, some
of the behavioral experiments necessary will be different from
person to person, due to specific fears.
For example, the vast majority
of people with social anxiety list
"presentations/speeches" and "making
introductions" as part of their anxiety hierarchy.
"Mingling" or making small talk, especially with
strangers, usually makes the anxiety hierarchy as well. Everyone
in the group works on these anxiety problems and we do most of
these activities together.
Other behavioral experiments
that the majority of people practice on in the behavioral therapy
group are self-assertive role plays and the ability to
deliberately do something foolish in front of a group of people.
However, these behavioral experiments do not fall on every person’s
hierarchy. If a person does not have anxiety with these
particular social activities, they do not need to be doing
self-assertive role plays and/or foolish things in public.
An experiment that is essential
to some group members, such as learning to look other people
directly in the eye, is not a problem for many other group
members. So, members who need to work on this will use one of our
behavioral therapy experiments, such as the Stare Chair, the
Stand Stare, or the No-Personal-Space Stare. While these
techniques are very helpful to people with eye contact anxieties,
many other people do not have this anxiety and, therefore, do not
need to work on this experiment. The purpose of the behavioral
group is for everyone to work on their own individualized anxiety
hierarchy. The focus is on doing what is needed for the
individual to overcome social anxiety.
We have found that the best and
most permanent results do not occur in the first behavioral
group. Thus, we encourage people with social anxiety to continue
with the behavioral group therapy for as long as it takes to
fully eradicate social anxiety. Most people notice a large amount
of progress after completion of cognitive therapy and the first
behavioral group. This, of course, is good, but people also
realize by this time that they can make more progress and conquer
more social anxieties. As a result, over 90% of people choose to
continue on into a second behavioral therapy group where they
continue to build upon the successes experienced in the first
group.
Therapists should encourage
group participation and continuance at this point, because even
the most motivated of people cannot get to the place where they
want to be (i.e., relatively free of anxiety) with just one
behavioral group under their belt. The persistence and
consistency in the behavioral group program pays off well, and
the improvement over anxiety is even clearer as time progresses.
I should mention that our therapy costs are low, relative to
other programs, we use sliding fee scales, and when people choose
to continue group behavioral therapy, the cost is more than cut
in half, thus allowing everyone access to continue with therapy,
regardless of financial condition.
As a result of our
"intensive" CBT sessions in which people from all over
the world come for comprehensive CBT, we found that therapy was
more effective if we took what we were learning and applying in
the therapy group out into the real world. So, beginning in 1998,
we formally added these outside-of-the-clinic
"experiments" to our comprehensive cognitive-behavioral
therapy program. For example, when the group is ready for this,
we go to a local shopping mall, a university campus, or a
downtown area in which we know there will be people milling
around. Then, depending on the individual’s anxiety hierarchy,
the "experiments" that are available to us in our
progress against social anxiety are numerous.
When the group goes to a
shopping mall, for example, one of the activities we use to
decrease self-consciousness and become more comfortable with
being the center of attention, is finding a table at the mall’s
food court, ordering some food or drinks, and staking out a
table. Then, one of the members goes and gets a bagel or muffin
and we put a candle in it, light it, and sing happy birthday to
the group member who has chosen to do this
"experiment".
Before every experiment we talk
about it from a cognitive perspective, and each person who
participates in an "experiment" has volunteered to do
it because they know it will help them overcome their social
anxiety. The birthday party experiment in public places is
effective because the birthday person is asked to slowly look
around the mall at other people while the birthday song is being
sung to them and while they are the center of attention. They are
generally surprised that people’s reaction is either positive
(i.e., many people smile at us and some even sing along) or
neutral (i.e., many people simply ignore us). We have performed
this particular experiment over a hundred times now, with no
adverse response.
Space again does not allow us to
discuss each and every behavioral technique we use in the
real-world "experiments". Some of the other
outside-the-clinic experiments we have found helpful include
initiating conversations with salespeople, going up the down
escalator, skipping through the mall like schoolchildren, yelling
at each other to "wait up for me" in a crowd, and
talking to strangers in stores concerning a product or an item
that they are looking at (e.g., "That looks like an
interesting book. Does it seem to be pretty thorough?")
The opportunities for
outside-the-clinic experiments are too numerous to list. We have
found that having the entire group there, plus an anxiety mentor,
insures that everything goes smoothly. We work out everything
first, before we leave the clinic. That is, people know what
experiment would help them with social anxiety, and they know how
much they can do at any given time. We work with people to ensure
that their choices are reasonable, hierarchical, and are
proceeding in a rational way. In addition, a pre-experiment
rationalization is given (i.e., what to look for and expect
during the experiment) and a post-experiment rationalization
(i.e., a debriefing) is provided to ensure that the person
interpreted the experiment correctly and was thinking along
rational lines.
So, for the above reasons we are
beginning to use the term "comprehensive
cognitive-behavioral therapy". It is important that
professionals and people with social anxiety disorder understand
that treatment for social anxiety must be thorough and
comprehensive. A few methods, concepts, statements, and
techniques will prove unsuccessful. Cognitive therapy alone,
while helpful, will not provide adequate relief from social
anxiety. Behavioral therapy alone does not allow the brain to
change its perceptions and beliefs unless a feared activity is
done hierarchically and successfully and then cognitively
reinforced. It is important to integrate the cognitive and the
behavioral therapy, although this does not need to occur at the
same time.
Comprehensive
cognitive-behavioral therapy implies that we will use every
method, strategy, and concept useful to us. We will provide many
options to reach the goal and not be dependent on one cognitive
strategy to work miracles. We must use all the cognitive
strategies at our disposal, reinforce the necessity of
persistency and consistency in social anxiety therapy, and make
available any form of behavioral activity or experiment that will
help the person slowly move up their anxiety hierarchy in the
behavioral group. As with the cognitive therapy, the behavioral
activities or experiments must be thorough and comprehensive. The
therapist should have a list of several dozen behavioral
activities that should give the person with social anxiety more
peace and confidence as they work on these activities as the
group progresses.
For the successful treatment of
social anxiety, both the cognitive and behavioral therapy must be
thorough and comprehensive. Reinforcement must be continuous, and
the person must be motivated to stick to a thirty-minute a day
practice routine.
This course of action is not the
path of least resistance for either the therapist or the patient.
However, it is the best way we know to overcome social anxiety
disorder. Most people with social anxiety will tell you that,
even though they can see there is much work ahead, they are
willing and motivated to do it, because the work is nothing in
comparison to the daily nightmare of living with social anxiety.
This hope, progress, and eventual success is what keeps all of us
in a positive frame of mind and moving forward to our ultimate
goal.
the
20 Audio CBT
Tape Series
"Overcoming Social Anxiety:
Step by Step"
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